Nigel Shelby, a 15-year-old student from Huntsville High School in Huntsville, Alabama, has taken his own life following a series of homophobic bullying from fellow students.
Alabama's local Rocket City Pride group released a statement over the weekend announcing the loss of Nigel.
'We are heartbroken over the death of Nigel Shelby, a 15 year old Freschman at Huntsville High School. Nigel took his life because he was bullied for being gay.' The Statment read. 'There are no words that can be said to make sense of this devastating news.'
The group also set up a GoFundMe page in order to assist Nigel's family at this difficult time. The page has a target of $10,000, but at this time has already exceeded this goal and has raised more then $14,000.
Caila Malone, a drag queen and member of Rocket City Pride said, 'I remember being called terrible words even when I was in elementary school before I knew what they meant. These bullies have to be held accountable, and until our state legislation shows that they have to do that they're able to run a muck and do whatever they want. It's shaken all of us so we just have to bring our LGBTQ community in Huntsville together and let all of these kids know, that they are not alone.'
Studies by the Centre for Social Equity say that 74% of youth claim that they do not feel safe in school.
'We are saddened to learn this morning of the death of Nigel Shelby, one of our 9th grade students.' Said Aaron King, Nigel's school principal. 'Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. Many students have been affected by this news. Teachers and specially trained counselors have talked with students about Nigel and their feelings. Please be sensitive to any changes in your child’s behavior. Over the next few days, encourage your child to express his or her feelings and listen attentively.'
The statement also went on to provide advice to parents on helping their children grieve, and the different reactions their children may have to the news.
One of Nigel's fellow classmates, Nadia M. Richardson, has started a mental health awareness campaign called No More Martyrs.
'I am still processing this loss, we have so much to understand and so much work to do. Racism, sexism, homophobia, classism; all of this plays a part.' She said in a statement. 'Bullying is a byproduct of a world ill-equipped to include that which is deemed different. As a result, psychologically damaging othering occurs and leaves many isolated, self-loathing, and depressed. Don't shy away from the necessary conversations around this. The cost is too high.'
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